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How envy works

I’m coming up on 10 years at the Fruit, and it’s the first year that I haven’t upgraded to the new flagship iPhone. Not only that, but it’s the first year I haven’t felt...

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2020 Reflections; 2021 Resolutions

A few weeks ago I came across this prompt via an Instagram post from my church: what are the hidden gifts of 2020? I love thought-provoking questions like this because it gives me the...

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How do you cook rice?

Growing up Asian means that I only knew one way to cook rice: with a rice cooker. I hadn’t even considered other methods until last week, when a friend sent me Uncle Roger’s video...

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Learning to be grateful

I’ve been taking this free Yale online class on the “Science of Well-Being” for the past couple weeks (h/t Cody’s Curations), and the best part of the class has been these weekly accountability calls...

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J is for Judgey, part 3

I’m addicted to Hanabi. Or more accurately, I’m addicted to Board Game Arena. In lieu of organizing in-person volleyball and game nights, I’m now organizing virtual game nights like a madman. The best part...

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How judgey am I?

“On a scale of 1-10, how judgey am I?” I asked my cousin Brian. “About a 12.” Don’t you love how family always tells you the truth? Some background here. I’m older than Brian,...

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“Where are you from?”, part 2

I love that the Merriam-Webster definition of cringe is “to recoil in distaste,” because it accurately describes how I feel when somebody (typically non-Asian) asks me, “Where are you from?” A few years ago...

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“Seriously, Ted?”

This is super nerdy, but I’m pretty excited that I registered the domain name for this blog last week. Not only that, but I also changed my Twitter and Instagram handles to @seriouslyted when...

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Manager learnings, part 1

I’ve always had an irrational and unhealthy fear of being fired. Part of this is due to my upbringing, and it’s compounded by my sensitivity to criticism. One of my first learnings as a...